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Growing Pains

Every family has them These unsettling times these misunderstandings Times when many things come into play In most cases these wee spats are soon over and forgotten But sometimes differences run deeper Because of other factors Such as jealousy, middle child syndrome personality It's only human nature at play The necessity for all to find our place In the overall scheme of life To establish one's self in the pecking order And accepting it without malice, without jealousy A hard lesson to learn when we're brand new at he game Always suspecting that siblings Are the ones receiving preferential treatment In reality, they are reacting in exactly the same matter Trying their best to learn the ropes To understand what life means what life is all about But we never do have all the answers Even if we survive those uncertain early years And live to the ripe old age of thirty Well that is what old age is when you're a teenager Please be assured, you WILL get through And be a well adjusted adult

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Date: 5/9/2024 7:45:00 PM
Dear Jack, your thoughts hold so much truth. Every family has ups and downs, thoughts move in many different directions. We do get through them, one day at a time. Most do, any way. Congratulations my dear friend, on Poem of the Day. My best to you. Hugs, Brandy
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Jack Ellison
Date: 5/10/2024 4:29:00 AM
WOW! a POTD... the recognition feels good! Love, Happy Jack xxx
Date: 5/9/2024 6:50:00 PM
Congratulations, my happy friend, on a well-deserved POTD! I have ruminated on this topic. Once I just stood back to see what my siblings were really like, instead of just reacting. This is going in my fave list! Hugs ~ Kim
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Jack Ellison
Date: 5/10/2024 4:21:00 AM
Dear Kim, sure appreciate the POTD honour! Have a super day dear friend xxx
Date: 5/9/2024 6:41:00 PM
I enjoyed your fine POTD, Jack. Congratulation on your POTD! Enjoy your special day of recognition, my friend. Bill
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Jack Ellison
Date: 5/10/2024 4:17:00 AM
Thanks Bill for the POTD, very much appreciated my Texas friend!
Date: 5/9/2024 6:25:00 PM
Your POTD really touched me. So true, 30 seems old when you're young. Funny that once we pass that age, 30 seems young. Great poem.
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Benjamin Bartley
Date: 5/12/2024 4:15:00 PM
That's funny.
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Jack Ellison
Date: 5/10/2024 4:11:00 AM
Yes the 30 benchmark is a major age growing up... at 31 it's all over!!!
Date: 5/9/2024 4:53:00 PM
Dear Jack, a wonderful poem that touches upon the many facets of family life and strife. Your title is perfect and sets the tone for this thoughtful, compassionate and encouraging piece. Congratulations for POTD honors.. well deserved! Warmest wishes.. ~Susan
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Jack Ellison
Date: 5/10/2024 4:04:00 AM
Dear Susan thanks a bunch for the POTD vote... very much appreciated! Love from me too you! xxx
Date: 5/9/2024 1:03:00 PM
Congratulations on your POTD win. I enjoyed reading your "Growing Pains" write. It is all part of life, good or bad... Have a wonderful/blessed day writing away.....................
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Jack Ellison
Date: 5/9/2024 1:19:00 PM
Paula dear Paula, thanks for the POTD vote! Love,Happy Jack xxx!
Date: 5/9/2024 12:53:00 PM
This is a great poem It is deserving of POTD. Congratulations. I really enjoyed it.
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Jack Ellison
Date: 5/9/2024 1:14:00 PM
Many thanks for the POTD vote Hilda! Love, Happy Jack XXX
Date: 5/9/2024 11:03:00 AM
Hello happy jack, Congrats, on the POTD Yes these are growing pains. We all go through this growing up.Love, /Darlene/ xxx-ooo
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Darlene De Beaulieu
Date: 5/9/2024 4:24:00 PM
Yes Happy Jack, hopefully we wake up on the pulse side. Love to you r. Happy Jack.xxxxx-oooo
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Jack Ellison
Date: 5/9/2024 1:06:00 PM
But hopefully we end up on the plus side of life! Love to you Miss Darlene! xxx
Date: 5/9/2024 8:44:00 AM
Very wise and reassuring write this is, especially the ending. Youve highlighted and touched the turbulent relations in families, and most of them truly hits strong and makes sense, especially the middle child syndrome, and also how you mentioned we never really have answers etc! Profound write this is! so well articulated on a subject that many needs to write about. Pleasure reading this. Congratulations on receiving POTD. Well deserved
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Jack Ellison
Date: 5/9/2024 8:59:00 AM
Thanks for the POTD award! Much appreciated my friend!
Date: 5/9/2024 5:36:00 AM
...YOU HAD ROPES!!...what privilege...we had to climb free hand, wearing our brother's sneakers, hand-me-down dungarees (aka-blue genes) and we still tell each other...."Mom always liked you best".....Sorry, Jack, but you started it....nice write and congrats on POTD
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Jack Ellison
Date: 5/9/2024 5:45:00 AM
Thanks dear friend for the POTD award!
Date: 5/9/2024 4:45:00 AM
Congrats on POTD
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Jack Ellison
Date: 5/9/2024 5:16:00 AM
Thank you friend!
Date: 5/9/2024 4:20:00 AM
Dear Jack, you beautifully encapsulate the complexities of family dynamics and the challenges of finding our place in the world. Your words are filled with truth, empathy, understanding, and acceptance, which are essential on this life journey. Congratulations on being recognized as Poem of the Day; it's a testament to the power of your insight and expression. Keep writing and sharing your wisdom with the world my friend, - Blessings, Daniel.
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Jack Ellison
Date: 5/9/2024 5:21:00 AM
Your words are always wize dear friend! Thanks for the "Poet of the day" honor Daniel!
Date: 5/9/2024 3:34:00 AM
Jack, a wonderful poem, congratulations on POTD.
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Jack Ellison
Date: 5/9/2024 5:23:00 AM
Thanks dear friend Tania!
Date: 5/9/2024 3:23:00 AM
Hmmm ~ wise words, Jack. Forgiveness and understanding is the key, when differences arise, expanding our view. Ego usually plays spoilsport though, preventing healing. Congratulations on POTD, for this deep write.
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Jack Ellison
Date: 5/9/2024 5:26:00 AM
Love your words! Ego usually comes into play... thanks my friend!
Date: 5/9/2024 3:07:00 AM
Hooray! Applause! Delighted to see your poem was selected as POTD! Congratulations, Jack!
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Jack Ellison
Date: 5/9/2024 5:28:00 AM
Dear Sara! Thanks for returning! Kisses...
Date: 5/9/2024 2:30:00 AM
Big congrats on a well considered POTD, Jack. I have just one issue… I’ve passed thirty twice over…. So when do I become this well adjusted adult… and how do I avoid it ;-)
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Jack Ellison
Date: 5/9/2024 5:36:00 AM
"passing thirty twice!" lol
Date: 5/9/2024 2:21:00 AM
oh gee jack I can relate big time, i was always at the back of the queue in my family! many congrats on POTD:-) hugs jan xx
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Jack Ellison
Date: 5/9/2024 5:34:00 AM
Thanks for the POTD honour dear Jan! xxx
Date: 5/9/2024 2:08:00 AM
- True, every family has them ... congratulations on your p.o.t.d., Jack :) - hugs
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Jack Ellison
Date: 5/9/2024 5:39:00 AM
Thank you Anne-Lise for the POTD honour!
Date: 5/9/2024 12:33:00 AM
Congratulations on your uniquely written potd!
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Jack Ellison
Date: 5/9/2024 5:43:00 AM
Thanks dear friend for the POTD award!
Date: 5/9/2024 12:31:00 AM
Back with big congratulations to you Jack on today's POTD honour. Tom
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Jack Ellison
Date: 5/9/2024 5:47:00 AM
Gosh thank you dear Tom!
Date: 5/7/2024 10:23:00 AM
Familes at war you often hear about, it's forgiving and moving on that binds them together. A verse of wisdom Jack. Tom
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Jack Ellison
Date: 5/7/2024 11:39:00 AM
Strange but true! People are a strange lot LOL
Date: 5/7/2024 5:03:00 AM
wow, Jack, your poem is profound, deep and thought provoking. I absolutely loved it...you're right what I perceived as sibling preferential treatment was just a lack of understanding that my brothers, too, were learning the ropes...my parents were also learning the ropes. Comparing teenager years to old age...well that's just brilliant. A Fave! have a great day, hugs, Sara
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Jack Ellison
Date: 5/7/2024 5:26:00 AM
Yes... a lack of understanding during our formative years! Methinks most well adjusted families go through this process! Thank you for your assessment as it seems most families go through! Love dear Sara xxx

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