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Identity

As very young children, we did what we did in a non-reflective way No critical thinking or questioning about our being okay. As a school- age child other's reactions begin to be learned Beginning to integrate how approval was something to be earned. As a teen self-conscious and uncertain, as if being on display; A persona affected by the audience of the day. The pursuit of crossing that line As a clearer self begins to define. Less need for other's validation More self-affirmation. As less outer pursuant, An individual more congruent. Each a separate entity... The cherished gift of identity. 09/04/15

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Date: 9/14/2015 1:10:00 PM
Barbara, congrats on your wonderful win. SKAT love :)
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Barbara Campbell
Date: 9/14/2015 2:27:00 PM
Skat, I am aware that you take the time to contact me whenever I have a poem that receives recognition. It may not seem like much effort to you, but to me it one of the big rewards for taking the time to set to paper my thoughts and feelings.
Date: 9/14/2015 4:37:00 AM
Superb take with this very lovely write Barbara n a great win ! Big congrats!
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Barbara Campbell
Date: 9/14/2015 7:58:00 AM
Thanks again!! Barbara
Date: 9/6/2015 12:05:00 AM
Barbara, love the write a 7. Children are innocent hugs eve
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Barbara Campbell
Date: 9/6/2015 12:46:00 AM
Thank you for the number 7. I know it is something good, but I honestly do not know where it comes from. I have been trying to figure it out; I'm not as good at navigating this site as I would like to be. Barbara
Date: 9/5/2015 12:30:00 AM
YES, our identity keeps shaping up until we blossom into adults with our unique set of ideas and values. nicely done.
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Barbara Campbell
Date: 9/5/2015 5:04:00 AM
Andrea. As always, thank you for spending time to read my poetry and reflecting. Barbara

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