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A part of some parents never grew beyond childhood. Such parents are therefore incapable of parenting anyone but themselves. It is to them that "Happy Homes" speaks.

Happy homes are filled with the noise of children; Unhappy homes the noise of their parents-- Parents who want to have children But don't want their children to have parents. In vain their children search them for the image of a parent, Longing to see in their beloved frame Someone patient, Someone caring, Someone tolerant, And ready for sacrifice. But such a one they scorn to be lest they lose their chance for fun Which they both have each day parenting their secret inner child-- That little child in some parents embedded To whom the outward child is a great rival. What patience they show this inward child! And what care, tolerance, & sacrifice too! At them no angry voice is raised nor a stern finger wagged And not once--never--are they urged to adulthood. So upwards now I cast my words To firmly perch on the winds that come So when far and wide they blow this night This tip they'll bear to every little child: "Of such parents are unhappy homes made: Parents obsessed with their inward child, The secret child that so fills their hands Leaving no space for the outward one."

Copyright © | Year Posted 2015




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Date: 8/30/2017 4:07:00 PM
Some happy homes are like foams that melts before the sun......
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Date: 10/24/2016 12:42:00 PM
Creative work that you have penned..For so many people having a child matures them but for some it is total disaster for they are not prepared to be a parent..Sometimes it is caused from the enviroment in which they are reared and for some kind of genetics they received at birth and some it is and/or both..Thanks for stopping by..Sara
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Date: 5/28/2016 9:44:00 AM
Wise words indeed Agona:-) hugs Jan xx
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Agona Apell
Date: 5/29/2016 6:50:00 AM
Jan, thanks for the warm words!
Date: 2/7/2016 5:18:00 AM
A wonderful read... WOW, now I wonder what home I am in. I imagine it is SUPER HAPPY... All my children are noisy and crazy and wild. LOL, amazing write my friend. I shall share this with my daughter Royal T... Gosh I wish we could tag these poems. LOVE LINDA
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Date: 2/16/2016 11:33:00 AM
From what you say, your children are no doubt the blooms of a happy home. Are they poets too? Thanks Linda for the compliments!
Date: 1/25/2016 4:04:00 PM
very wise words here. You know what is right and what is wrong when it comes to parenting!!
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Date: 1/27/2016 8:09:00 AM
Thanks, Andrea! It's the curse of these times that we are not poor in examples of wrong parenting.
Date: 1/23/2016 10:13:00 PM
BRILLIANT POEM............SKAT
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Date: 1/24/2016 11:16:00 PM
Thanks SKAT for the boost of a compliment! Hope you've had a great start to the year.
Date: 12/20/2015 11:41:00 PM
Great point of view upon children, I like your poem. Children are the joy of families!! Best wishes.
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Date: 12/21/2015 12:49:00 AM
Samantha, I wish more people saw them in that light. Nice of you to pass by and share your thoughts. Best wishes for the season!

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