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Why We Complain

Does complaining helps, I don't know; but they say yes it helps, keeps one away from taking action; It gives excuses to procrastinate, stay away from achieving goals as reaction; Complain helps too much not to try to find solution. Surely it proves to someone we are victims; Trying to find one person who can be blamed; The chronic complainers doesn't like how system works, seem to be unsatisfied, always pained; they've tendency to focus on setbacks not progress. Some vents emotional dissatisfaction tend to be focused on themselves and their own didn't care to solve issues, just seek attention; Unluckily dampens people's moods as shown; Complainer along with listener also felt worse. It's observed there are "instrumental complaint"; that is all about solving problems, focus on the impact of the problem, and explain importance of change, thoughtful action chosen to create a specific plan for bringing the change. Some feel by complaining get relief from theirs mental stress; though research says when one complains body releases cortisol that impairs immune system makes one gets a lot of pains susceptible to high cholesterol, diseases. Let’s decide should we only stop after complaining Or put more emphasis to find one for blaming Or cooperate with authorities no more hesitating or apply our minds to resolve issues for gaining experiences. Let’s resolve not to make issues complicating. ~X~X~X~

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Date: 12/12/2019 9:48:00 PM
Thank you Caren for your kind words. God bless you.
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Date: 12/12/2019 2:16:00 AM
Complaining is a luxury I do not give myself, for what my brain hears my heart say, my brain believes. "Surely it proves to someone we are victims;" So wise!
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