Culture is the heritage of the people, that shapen their lifestyle and behaviors.
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At home you normally stumble onto a long lost document of yours when you begin to search for a recently lost one. ~ Nkwachukwu Ogbuagu
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Clothes and laws were invented by man. They both cushion his animalistic tendencies. Strip him of the former and he’d still be a man. Strip of him of the latter and you’d see the animal in him. ~ Nkwachukwu Ogbuagu
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Forgiveness is to our benefit not to the benefit of those who incurred it
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When faced with insults or mistreatment, focus on the positives and counterbalance negativity with gratitude. Remember your positive qualities, valuable contributions, and the people who love and respect you. Review your achievements and capabilities, and consider the complexities of the person who mistreated you. Assume fundamental human dignity in yourself and others, and recognize your worth beyond the situation.
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"Don't try to coerce respect through intimidation or obsequiousness - these strategies undermine self-worth and lead to frustration. Authentic respect cannot be compelled; it stems from others' own judgments and choices. Instead of trying to control others' behavior, focus on self-respect and upholding your own standards of integrity. Lead by example through principled and rational responses that speak for themselves. By doing so, you'll maintain personal power and demonstrate true character."
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"Don't try to coerce respect through intimidation or obsequiousness - these strategies undermine self-worth and lead to frustration. Authentic respect cannot be compelled; it stems from others' own judgments and choices. Instead of trying to control others' behavior, focus on self-respect and upholding your own standards of integrity. Lead by example through principled and rational responses that speak for themselves. By doing so, you'll maintain personal power and demonstrate true character."
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"Avoid words that blow up the significance of disrespect, and be wary of confirmation bias that reinforces negativity. See the bigger picture and handle difficulties philosophically within yourself. While speaking of grievances may offer temporary relief, it can keep you stuck in victimhood. Choose to focus on inner growth rather than amplifying negativity outwardly."
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"When faced with disrespect, avoid excessive gossip or complaining, as it can reinforce negativity and victimhood. Instead, share incidents with trusted confidants who offer healthy support and perspective. Pause before venting, and consider if it's truly serving your growth or just spreading toxicity. Shift your focus to constructive action, and frame experiences as opportunities to demonstrate virtues like forgiveness."
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"Surround yourself with people who treat you with decency and encourage your growth. Audit your relationships and limit contact with those who bring out the worst in you. Manage your exposure to negativity, especially from difficult family members. Fill your life with people who resonate with your values and appreciate your worth - they make all the difference."
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"When faced with criticism or disrespect, pause and review the feedback rationally, setting aside emotions. Ask yourself if there's truth to the words, and consider whether there's room for improvement or virtues to cultivate. Even if the delivery is harsh, be open to the usefulness of the message. By handling feedback thoughtfully, you can separate the valuable insights from the negativity and use them as opportunities for growth."
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"Some will hate you, some will love you , it's beyond your control. Treat all kindly, but accept you won't be everyone's cup of tea. Your worth isn't dependent on pleasing the whole world; stay grounded in your own conscience. Manage your emotions skillfully, but don't expect universal approval , it cannot be forced."
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"You can't please everyone, and that's okay. Some people will dislike you due to differences in values, worldviews, and experiences. Instead of trying to control others' opinions, focus on being true to yourself. Reflect on feedback mindfully, and use it as an opportunity to grow, but don't take every criticism personally. By accepting that some things are beyond your control, you'll find peace and confidence in being yourself."
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Jealousy and judgementalism arises from deep seated and unhealed emotional insecurity and issues around self worth. All these relate to disconnection from Source & separation consciousness. Period.
©GhairoDanielsQuotes
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Each of the four seasons has its peculiar beauty — like the peculiar beauty of each of the four wives married to one man. ~Nkwachukwu Ogbuagu
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When poets are too lazy or too fearful of going deep within, their judgement faculties become very strong
©GhairoDanielsQuotes
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What souls currently embodied in NorthAmerica need 2 understand is that governments of that area have been responsible for much pain that Mother Earth has experienced & is continuing 2 experience. Humans carry effects of governments where they are, so these souls need to be at forefront of healing the mess. This requires human 2 human interaction at Heart level, often on a one to one basis. Vigilance must be exercised 2 interact with members from other countries.
©GhairoDanielsQuotes
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Jealousy and judgementalism arises from deep seated and unhealed emotional insecurity and issues around self worth. All these relate to disconnection from Source & separation consciousness. Period.
©GhairoDanielsQuotes
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If life were all questions and no answers, it would be a world of sickness without cure. If the other way round, it would be a world of cure with no sickness. Next to this is the meaninglessness of life, which is palpable to those that read meaning into everything meaningless. ~Nkwachukwu Ogbuagu
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The tailor who has just had his cut fingers stitched by the surgeon has gone back to his workshop with the surgeon’s torn lab coat to stitch it. Is that strange? Oh, no! Both men are experts on stitching. Hey, Friends, don’t you see we need one another? Let us all come together to stitch up the many cuts on our today’s troubled world. ~Nkwachukwu Ogbuagu
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Every city has her peculiar charm. London has her peculiar chime. ~Nkwachukwu Ogbuagu
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The human heart is a piece of great mystery. It has no eyes, yet it sees. It has no mouth, yet it speaks. It has no brain, yet it’s the most cunning thing God ever made. ~Nkwachukwu Ogbuagu
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The tailor who has just had his cut fingers stitched by the surgeon has gone back to his workshop with the surgeon’s torn lab coat to stitch it. Is that strange? Oh, no! Both men are experts on stitching. ~Nkwachukwu Ogbuagu
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Sex is neither art nor science. That’s why it’s not taught in school. And that’s why people find it difficult to talk about it. It is simply a gift God gave us with his left hand.
~Nkwachukwu Ogbuagu
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Romantic heartbreak is a serious non-contagious disease, requiring no pills or syrups, but curable only by a complete dose of Time. ~Nkwachukwu Ogbuagu
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A UNION OF CIRCUMSTANCE
VERSUS MUTUALITY IS WEAK…
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A good friend is like a balm applied or administered on a deep cuts. A bad friend is like filth besides a pot of soup (stench). Prof Adejola Joseph
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Maintain focus to avoid distraction. Maintain focus to maintain direction. Where there is focus there is achievement and good success. Prof Adejola Joseph.
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Open the gate of school and close the gate of prison. Where there is education there is security and progress. Prof Adejola Joseph.
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Trust in God...is easy, perhaps for God...but sometimes us men have great difficulty with the concept. In God's time...keeping long track with my antique watch.
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