at the end of your lifetime it's not the material things you possess that people will remember you for. no one ever said at a funeral of a loved one "hey remember she had so many designer purses? they were so beautiful" nope. but they will remember how you made them feel. the things you taught them. the values they learned from you. when you are gone they will survive on the memories made with you, not the purse or items that were accessories to you